About Papatia
Papatia Feauxzar is an Author and Muslim Publisher who holds a Master's degree in Accounting with a concentration in Personal Finance. She now works from home at https://hhaccountingsvcs.webs.com/ alhamdullilah. You can visit her website at www.djarabikitabs.com or her sister's website www.fofkys.com
Wow this beautiful. I admire the author for being so generous
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Right! Seriously, I don’t want to be a target 24/7 or the center of attention lol. So, I agree with her 100% . To think that some people gave her grief for the article. Over 200 negative responses :0 smh! She is right thought and as women we need to be less insecure and less selfish!
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Wooah really 200 jealous insecure people? To be honest, I get a bit possessive too but reading her article opened eyes for me. So inspiring masha Allah..Thanks for sharing.
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Yup! Crazyness sister. Crazyness I tell you. How are my love? Great Friday so far? Jumah Mubarak! xo! 🙂
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I am well alhumdulillah. Thanks for asking. And you?
Yeah Friday went well yesterday. And I hope so did yours. Belated Jummah Mubarak to you.
P.S You are really sweet. To ask me and how my jumuah was. Really thoughtful.
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Ah don’t make me blush :). It was great alhamdullilah . Masha’Allah Subhanallah. It takes a sweet person to know one ^_^! Back at ya!
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Haha you are cute with your spluttering of alhumdulillah masha Allah and subhan Allah.
Glad to know you 🙂
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Okay that gave me a whole new way of thinking towards that. I thought that it was normal to think and behave like that, but there’s more to it. Wow.
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I tell you girl, we need our space sometimes lol! Who wants to be a target 24/7 or the center of attention all the time. It gets tiring :P!
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Innit. We need time to keep our sanity intact 😂
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Exactly! 😛
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lol! Everytbody is entitled to their opinion 😉
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Oops.. Sry.. Yea
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I don’t know if I want more than one wife, but I don’t have a problem with polygyny.
Also, if I may offer a shred of advice or suggestion: When you post links on your blog like you did here, can you please set it so that when we click on it, it opens in a new window/tab rather than taking us directly to the site? I’d prefer this because I don’t want to have to keep clicking “Back” to get back to my WordPress Reader and read the other blog entries that I have to read. Just a suggestion.
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Will try to fix it. I thought I fixed that issue…Oh yea, many men don’t realize that polygyny will be a lot of work on their part. They think it’s going to be a walk in the part. So good for you for knowing what you want! Will try to fix the link thingie again.
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Hmmm, idk what to now….Another said this a while back “Thanks for following my blog, it drives me
ahead.
Just a suggestion for your blog:
Go to Settings>Sharing, and select the checkbox – Front Page, Archive Pages, and Search Results
Now if someone visits your blog, he/she may like the post without opening the post separately. It will help you get more likes on the blog.regards, http://YourWellWisherProgram.wordpress.com“
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I know many people do this, not sure if my blogs are set to this.
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It was a great piece of write and thought from a great muslima! She told us the truth of an ideal righteous muslima but i guess we are too far away from it except being muslim. I would admire and respect a house of females living peacefully but even thought of husband thinking about another woman makes me weary! I think our mentality is take whole or leave! We didnt learn much about sharing and our hearts are so closed to it.
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My own mother never saw any issues with polygamy. It was challenging and like I said shaytan is always busy whispering nonsense in our ears. She has remarried twice since my father passed But she’s happy to be a co-wife again masha’Allah.
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MashaAllah, May Allah keep her happy !
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Amiin, wa iyyaki!
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Reblogged this on mylittlebreathingspace and commented:
An excellent article! Alhumdu Lillah…
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This was a very interesting read! I have heard some great things about sharing a husband, there are so many benefits that most people refuse to see!
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